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 on: November 27, 2017, 05:55:37 PM 
Started by kevrudda - Last post by kevrudda
Hi yall
In a bit of a pickle.
Basically started seeing this new girl and its all great, but just cant get hard whenever we try to bang and dont know what to do.
Im 19 years old, never done it but had experience with other stuff and never had a problem getting up then. Its happed about 3 times now. First time I was drunk and tired as so just blamed it on that, and the second time i was a little drunk and a little tired but definitely not enough to make a difference  but still the same result. This is real weird but i can only describe as what im getting is semi hard with need to pee. Even if ive gone toilet it still feels like I need to pee and just not at all aroused down there. Its really annoying, I feel like a loser for the next couple days and cant get hard for a couple days after cause i just feel annoyed.

Im reasonably fit and health/ dont smoke so I know thats not a problem. Some people blame it on porn so ive stopped watching that and wank less. SHould mention I have no problem getting it up when shes not around so I know its all mental but dont know what to do. Maybe viagra for the frist time (really rather not though). Ive read people say pleasure her and wait, but i cant take my mind off it while i am so nothing happens. Any tips heaps appreciated.

(erectile disfunction)

 on: November 08, 2017, 08:31:53 PM 
Started by Popeye33 - Last post by Popeye33
So I ve been with this lady for a wile now and have had sex very often in the beginning of the relationship and I was having issues finishing. well I thought it was the drinking cause we were always drinking every time we had sex. than there was a week we didn't drink and still had the same problem . so I thought it was because I was just getting over a previous 18 year relationship. so thought it was my head playing tricks on me  than the ex cam over one day and we had sex. almost immediately I finished . the next morning same thing . so I knew something was off. she left said she didn't want anything to do with me anymore and I went back to the lady im with now . still having problems finishing . even noticed she felt different during sex. and then she mentioned one day she had a hysterectomy.  so I started to research hysterectomy. turns out she no longer has a cervix the part that stimulates my penis. Now I really like this lady and everything is fine except its getting to me that I cant finish conventionally. and its kind a makes me go soft a little early . I had figured the issue out and Ive discuss this with her cause she was getting annoyed that I wasn't finishing also. she has no problem doing other things to get me to finish  but Im getting a little board banging away sometimes and there is no stimulation . is there a fix for this .

 on: August 31, 2017, 02:30:33 AM 
Started by balubhau - Last post by pink23
You seem to have passion and wanting to satisfy your girl and her sensing that should be very helpful, I can sense my husbands true sexual passion and that always leads to satisfying sex.

 on: July 18, 2017, 05:07:39 PM 
Started by Finerdreams - Last post by Finerdreams
My husband hasn't had sex with me in 3 years. I try to initiate, but am always shot down. He won't talk to me about it. We've been together 27 years, married 25. We used to have sex all the time, then in later years, once a week, once a month and now nothing. I have changed since we got married. Health issues galore including Multiple Sclerosis and Diabetes. I gained a LOT of weight. I don't know what to do. Toys are getting useless. One of my "good friends" won't even have an affair with me. I'm getting a complex. What should I do? Who's got some good suggestions? I will not answer flippant replies.

 on: July 06, 2017, 06:13:41 PM 
Started by shadow2013 - Last post by shadow2013
I am a 26 year old woman who has been in a steady relationship for the past 9 years, over the past 2 years I have noticed a decrease in my libido but it has gotten to a point where I have no sex drive at all, zero, nada, nothing!!!! This is causing arguments between my partner and me and also a lot of frustration on my behalf, and I really don't know what to do to make things better. At first I thought that maybe it could have something to do with my oral contraceptive, so I stopped taking it for a few months and there was no difference, then my partner put it down to the fact that we had gotten ourselves into a routine so we tried doing thing differently that helped a bit at first but then back to square one. I really don't know what to do or to try anymore and I really want to make this better for my partner but most of all for myself. If anyone can help me with this I would be most grateful.

 on: June 17, 2017, 03:36:06 AM 
Started by Lisamlong1 - Last post by Lisamlong1
My husband and I have only been married for one year.  At first we had sex every day - sometimes 2 or 3 times a day.  We couldn't keep our hands off of each other.  But for the past few months we hardly ever have sex.  I wear sexy underwear to bed and short shorts during the day but when I try to initiate sex he just laughs and says "get off me you nympho!"  He hates talking about it but when he does he says it's stress or he's tired.  We're both young - only 37 and 38.  I get hit on all the time by other men but I want my husband!  Has he lost interest in me sexually?  If so, what can I do?

 on: February 11, 2017, 12:11:30 PM 
Started by balubhau - Last post by M.D.
If you can satisfy your girlfriend then I guess you can satisfy any women.

 on: February 11, 2017, 12:10:43 PM 
Started by Naddy - Last post by M.D.
Lot of time it has to do with social upbringing. What country are you from?

 on: February 11, 2017, 12:07:14 PM 
Started by bwrwglaw - Last post by M.D.
Well tie him down and show him how different it is.

 on: February 11, 2017, 12:06:18 PM 
Started by bwrwglaw - Last post by M.D.
Lot of time something is bothering a person and they can't get interested in sex. Ask him if you have said something or hurt his feelings in anyway.

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