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« on: July 18, 2009, 02:07:04 PM »

Hi everyone,
In a normal world male orgasm is like turning a light switch on or turning a water faucet on. Most of the men are easily arousable except those with some medical or psychological problems. The time from the initiation of excitement and arousal to orgasm varies from person to person. It has several factors including age, sexual experience, frequency of intercourse, anxiety, diseases and others. Male orgasm can be achieved in seconds and sometime not in hours, either extreme is not normal. Share your experiences and ask any questions.
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« Reply #1 on: July 27, 2009, 04:12:49 PM »

hi,

i usually do not orgasm [come]when given a blow job, and sometimes it takes me a lnog time an hour of on/off again pleasurable sex.  is it because of a new partner?  i do have some anxieties about performance, but i'm extremely fit, and get aroused in seconds, and can usually stay erect quite a long time, but i may need to be restimulated again, but then i'm erect for a while, 20 30 minutes.  will i ever be able to come from oral or hand from my new girl--ps we only done it 2 times???
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« Reply #2 on: July 29, 2009, 08:33:36 PM »

Hi John,
There are several reasons for not to get the orgasm especially by oral sex. The first and foremost if you have been masturbating in a very hard and vigorous manner like beating it against a hard surface or stroking in a hard way. By masturbating in the hard way for a long time, you lose the fine sensations which you get by oral or vaginal sex as it does not give the same stimulation as you do by hard masturbation. Lets go to the reasons by eliminating one by one. Let me know if yo have been masturbating in this way and also how young are you. hope to hear from you soon.
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« Reply #3 on: January 21, 2011, 02:46:15 AM »

HI, thanks a lot for this. It really helped me out!
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« Reply #4 on: January 21, 2011, 05:38:56 PM »

your very welcome, you can always share your experience and any comments you have.
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« Reply #5 on: April 03, 2013, 11:24:29 AM »

My name is Chris and I have issues achieving an orgasm during intercourse. I can't do it unless in a specific position and only if I concentrate on doing it. I have only had 1 orgasm from oral sex and only 1 orgasm during intercourse that "snuck up on me," so to speak. U have no trouble maintaining an erection and frequently have encounters lasting 30-60 minutes. I didn't mind it for a while because, well let's face it, every man "knows" women enjoy a man that has the stamina for her to potentially climax, but I've been feeling very inferior about it for some time (which leads to awkward sexual experiences that are not as fun as they used to be), but was too nervous to seek advice or help concerning the issue. It's started to affect my confidence when it comes to sex which has affected me in other ways. Can you help me?
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« Reply #6 on: April 07, 2013, 10:51:34 PM »

Hi Chris,
I don't think you have any physical problem, its all psychological as you can get orgasm in certain situations. I think you need more foreplay on you by your partner, more lubrication and then try it.
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« Reply #7 on: April 08, 2013, 03:15:30 PM »

does masterbate effects?? i used to masterbate vigorously like 4 times a day wen i started but i decreased gradually... but recently wen i was abt to hv sex with my gal i couldnt keep ma erection for long!!! i am losing my confidence so please help me out.. and please suggest me what should i do!!!?
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« Reply #8 on: April 13, 2013, 02:14:14 AM »

Most of the time it is anxiety and pressure to perform. If you take those two out, you should be ok as you are able to start the sex. Relax and give it sometime.
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« Reply #9 on: June 10, 2013, 07:34:25 AM »

What is wrong with me?  I like to dress up as a woman, any more I can't have sex without it.  When sucking on my partner, sometimes I get so hard that it HURTS!  Then, the most crazy thing, when he mounts me sometimes he is not even all the way in me yet, and its like my head explodes!  I squirt and squirt until there is nothing left.  Very messy. The first time was scary because I wasn't even touching myself or anything. This can't be normal, right?
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« Reply #10 on: June 26, 2013, 08:03:56 PM »

You don't need to touch yourself as prostate is very sensitive and having any pressure or feeling directly on prostate from penis can be very erotic and exciting leading to ejaculation. Regarding your cross dressing is the fanacy in your mind like many other who like to dress like women.
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« Reply #11 on: June 29, 2014, 11:27:19 PM »

I've always considered myself straight but I've come to be addicted to gay porn although i don't find men attractive i only like the penis. recently i been finding it harder to ejaculate so i started acting on my urges.now at least 3 times a week i find random guys who allow me to suck them and  get them to penetrate me which was good enough for awhile but my urges steadily increase and therefore making it harder to orgasm unless i do things like go to gay bars that have gloryholes and i sit by the holes sometimes for 3-6 hours just performing oral and receiving anal with countless men that I've never even met. why am i like this why do i have to do these things to have an orgasm please help or i fear i will soon be getting gangbanged by random guys just to satisfy me
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« Reply #12 on: July 13, 2014, 09:48:04 PM »

Sorry for the late reply. Has anything changed in your personal life recently? Any break up from a girl or inability to perform during sex with a girl?
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« Reply #13 on: April 03, 2016, 08:54:04 PM »

i can get erect without a problem but since i was a teen i dont feel much when i go. Now that im older i can only go 2 times out of ten and then i barely feel it, doesnt seem worth the trouble. Its affecting my marriage since i am no longer interested because of my problem, but us course she feels it is her. I have tried positions, anal, foreplay, toys, oral, nothing seems to work to increase sensation or the ability to go. masturbation is not the problem since i rarely do, but this has been a problem for decades.
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